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Everything I wish I'd had the day he left.

Guides and workbooks for the divorce, the breakup, and the situationship that knocked the wind out of you. Instant download. Read them at 2am in your pajamas. Nobody has to know.

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The guides

Start with what you need.

For the Freefall

The Divorce Survival Guide

$17

Nobody hands you a manual when your marriage falls apart. This is the one I needed and couldn't find: your first 30 days, the lawyer, the money, the kids and what to say.

  • 6 chapters
  • Your first 30 days, week by week
  • Hiring your attorney, with the questions to ask
  • Money, alimony and child support
  • Co-parenting, with a parenting plan starter
  • Who to tell and what to say
  • Fillable checklists and worksheets
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For the Replay

The 21 Days to Healing Journal

$7

One question a day, for the woman who's starting over. No homework, no pressure, nobody grading your handwriting. Ten minutes, a pen, and the truth.

  • 3 weeks
  • Sitting with the hurt
  • Remembering who you are
  • Learning to let go
  • A starting line and finish line, so you can see what moved
  • Weekly check-ins. Type on the pages or print them
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For the In-Between

The Heartbreak Recovery Roadmap

$37

The full B.E.T.T.E.R. Method, from surviving it to feeling like yourself again. Nine chapters of real talk and fillable worksheets for the divorce or the situationship that never got a label.

BBreatheEExamineTTransformTTake BackEEmergeRRise
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Everything · best value

The Complete Healing Bundle

$61$47
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The plan for the legal and money side, the workbook for your heart, and a page a day for the rough nights.

  • The Divorce Survival Guide
  • The 21 Days to Healing Journal
  • The Heartbreak Recovery Roadmap
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Alessandra
A note from me
I'm the friend who's been through it, sitting across from you at the kitchen table. Everything in this shop is what I needed when my marriage fell apart and couldn't find anywhere. So I made it.
xo, Alessandra
Free download · The Boundary Blueprint

Stop letting him live rent-free in your head.

Five steps to decide what you will and won't accept, from your ex, your family, and everyone in between. Plus a fill-in worksheet to make it yours.

01Define02Uncover03Establish04Act05Protect
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Work with me

The 30-Day Lifeline

Thirty days of me in your pocket. Voice and text support on Voxer while you get through the hardest part. $97 · 6 founding spots.

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How do I get my download?
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Can I use it on my phone?
Yes. Every guide is a PDF you can read on your phone, tablet or laptop, or print. The Roadmap's worksheets are fillable, so you can type right into them in any PDF app.
Is this therapy or legal advice?
No. These are tools from someone who's lived it. Divorce law varies by state, so talk to a family law attorney where you live. If you're struggling to get through the day, please reach out to a licensed therapist too.
Can I get a refund?
These are instant digital downloads, so all sales are final. If a file won't download or open, email mamasguidetodivorce@gmail.com within 14 days and I'll make it right.